What is a conversation? Going by definitions from Oxford, a conversation is a talk, especially an informal one, between two or more people, in which news and ideas are exchanged. Then why is it that we need resources (like this article) to tell us how to have a meaningful conversation?
Small talks are overrated and deep, powerful conversations are underrated. How many times, with how many people, have you been able to talk about your dreams, hopes, aspirations, problems? And how many people do you make small talks with daily? There is some difference between the numbers, if not a huge difference.
I believe I can make meaningful conversations with people I like and trust. Most of us can. But to be friends, I believe, we need to put in a little more effort than small talk. Here are a few articles I liked and hope that they can help you do better with how to have a meaningful conversation.
“A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That’s why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet.”
Truman Capote
Ignite Meaningful Conversations
With the right questions you can kindle a beautiful conversation. Find the questions here. These questions are best suited for friends and family.
Need a professional approach?
This article from Business Insider gives you everything you need to have a comfortable conversation in a professional setting like drinks with colleagues and networking events.
Think you can do better?
If you wish to improve your ability to have better conversations, this article is for you.
Learn from the best
There’s a difference between talking and communicating. Not a fan of reading? Watch these TED Talks to up your game.
Mind games?
If you’re the adventurous type and would like to try new tricks to enhance your conversations, here is a psychological trick you can try next time.
How comfortable are you with having deep and meaningful conversations with your family and friends? Do you think you’ll be more comfortable with a stranger when it comes to deeper conversations?
